July 25, 2017
advice articles


Oh hey guys! Long time no see! About that…

So as I’m sure all of you guys noticed, things have been a bit…well…quiet on this site. And that’s completely, totally our bad. Will and I love to do this thing where we let our ambition drive our ideas without really thinking about how much time and effort it’ll take to realize those ideas. We all do it to a certain degree. And so, on paper, running a daily vlog, two personal channels, a merch shop, an official website, and doing personal projects sounds like a pretty manageable feat. And then we tried to actually do that, and needless to say, we got a pretty harsh reality check. Even with the two of us staying home full time, we found ourselves working on these projects around the clock and still falling behind. Then Will got a job and things got even more difficult to manage. Since there are only so many hours in a day, we had to focus on certain projects and shelve others. This was unfortunately one of them. And it sucks, because this really is a passion project for both of us.

Live and learn, I guess.

That’s the bad news. The good news is that, with us getting married, we decided to seize an opportunity to rework everything and bring back some of these projects that have fallen by the wayside. We want to work smarter and not harder, which is why we’re going to be rolling out a BUNCH of changes really soon. Luckily for you guys, this means bringing back old favorites like the advice column and the shop. It also means unveiling one or two things that are entirely new! And as we do start rolling out changes, know that our goal is always to find the best ways to bring you guys together into a community, as well as share the stuff we’re passionate about.

So GET EXCITED! We’re back, and there’s lots of new stuff just around the corner!

About RJ

RJ is a blogger/vlogger/writer and the other half of the NotAdamandSteve duo. When he's not making videos or writing stuff online he's usually working out, traveling, telling you factoids you never asked for, working out, or spending quality time with his new husband and German Shepherd.



  2. Ronald Conception

    “And that’s completely, totally our bad.” Does this mean I can send you both to detention where I get to sit with you for about 40 minutes? lol

  3. Francine Powers

    Grest,good to hear,BUT are you also saying but not that daily vlogging is stopping? Sorry,but that’s what I felt as I kept reading.

  4. One suggestion: find some way to outsource more of the merch shop. You guys are in the content/media business, not logistics. Invest your time and energy in to things your best at!

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