June 27, 2017
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Tag Archives: relationships

Shallow or Sensible?

I have been single and looking to mingle for some time so I started talking with a guy through chat and e-mail and we really hit it off. I had seen pictures but not the actual person himself until our first date about 10 days after we first started talking. By our first date, we had talked on the phone ... Read More »

The First Time

First off because of you two I came out to my friends and family as a gay male I got positive responses. Now for the advice. Do you guys think that it would be a good idea from the start of a relationship to abstain from any sexual behavior for about 6 weeks to 2 1/2 months from the start ... Read More »

The 42-Year-Old Virgin

About four years ago, I accepted/admitted to myself that I was gay (I was 38 at the time). Although I consider myself a pretty normal guy (I’ve graduated college and grad school, have a professional career, have friends, good relationship with my family), I’ve never had a boyfriend or a girlfriend.  I’m not sure if I have a boring personality ... Read More »

Long Distance Relationship: Work Overseas

Here is my dilema: I am in a four year relationship with the man of my dreams. I have absolutely zero complaints and we have not even had a single argument. Being with him makes me more calm, stable and healthy, to where all of my friends see a difference. The problem is, he has to move away (over seas) for ... Read More »

Sex and Relationships

Do you think it is 100% necessary to have sex while in a relationship? I mean, I know as gay men there is this stereotype that all we do is screw, but it’s never been a big deal to me and my partner. We meet online (long distance dating for 3 months) and then we did the big dip and ... Read More »

On Again Off Again

“Hello RJ and Will I’ve been in a off again on again relashonship for 3 years. I’m 26 going on 27 and my other half is 20. We have good days and bad days. Recently we hit a hard patch and I don’t know what to do I love him like I never loved no one else. The past couple ... Read More »

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